Workplace Bullying (sometimes referred to as psychological harassment ) has been said to be responsible for more lost productivity in the workplace than any other cause. Surprised?
Many are familiar with childhood bullying, and Barbara Coloroso has written an excellent book on the subject: The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander From Pre-School to High School—How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence
“It’s the deadliest combination going: bullies who get what they want from their target, bullied kids who are afraid to tell, bystanders who either watch, participate, or look away, and adults who see the incidents as simply 'teasing' and a normal part of childhood. Discussing her new book, the bully, the bullied, and the bystander, Barbara Coloroso gives parents, caregivers, educators - and most of all, kids - the tools to break this cycle of violence.”
While the behaviour is certainly not new, the acknowledgment that very similar issues are present in many workplaces is relatively new. With courage and a willingness to talk openly about these issues, we can address this problem and ultimately become enlightened, just as we are becoming enlightened about racism, sexism, and other 'isms' that ultimately interfere with our ability to leave this world in a better state than we found it.
More recently, Barbara has written a new book ( Extraordinary Evil) that makes a compelling argument for a connection between bullying and genocide. It all begins with a willingness to feel contempt for another.
“It is a short walk from bullying to hate crimes to genocide—genocide is the most extreme form of bullying—a far too common system of behaviors that is learned in childhood and rooted in contempt for another human being who has been deemed by the bully and his or her accomplices, to be worthless, inferior, and undeserving of respect. ” Barbara Coloroso
There is no such thing as an “innocent bystander”.
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…and a common trigger prompting bullies to spring into action….
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“But he has nothing on!” cried a little child.
“The child tells the truth,” said its father quietly.
And the people began to whisper to one another what the child had said. “He has nothing on! A child says he has nothing on!”
Soon all the people were saying aloud, “But he has nothing on!”
And the Emperor, hearing what they said, shivered, for he knew that their words were true. But it would never do to stop the procession; and so he held himself stiffer than ever. And behind him, his officers held their heads higher than ever, and took greater pains to pretend to carry the Emporer's train, which was not there at all. </quote>
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o http://www.workforce.com/archive/article/23/38/99.php
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<style left> This is about a report published by one of the world's leading authorities on psychopaths (Robert Hare, a Canadian!!): http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/96/open_boss.html
Is your boss a corporate psychopath?
Take the test: http://www.abc.net.au/catalyst/quiz/
Here is another: http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/96/open_boss-quiz.html
http://www.abc.net.au/catalyst/stories/s1360571.htm
More on non-violent psychopaths by Robert Hare: Without conscience: The disturbing world of the psychopaths among us Coping with Psychopaths at work (adapted from: Martha Stout, author of The Sociopath Next Door.):
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Canadian Association of University Teachers page on Academic Freedom
Society for Academic Freedom and Scholarship
Harvey (2002) explained that bullies are usually difficult to spot because they often display an exaggerated degree of apparent respect to those in authority above them, therefore building up credit in the institutional leadership memory banks. But, Harvey advised, 'It is a naïve overgeneralization for those with status and power in an organization to assume that everyone who treats them with apparent respect treats everyone including the most vulnerable, with the same kind of respect' (p. 525). Harvey warned against giving a bully an opportunity to behave appropriately; the dynamics of workplace bullying are unique, and traditional methods such as mediation are not effective, and may, in fact further traumatize the target. Bullying cannot be handled in a morally neutral manner through arbitration.
Bullying is of a predatory nature, or even may be dispute-related in some cases, but as Namie (2003) was quick to point out, it should never be brushed off as a personality clash because:
Nationwide statistics on workplace bullying indicate (Brunner & Costello, 2003, and Namie, 2003):
Reasons targets are bullied (Namie & Namie, 2000):